My Early Years...
People
in the disability community are aware that my journey down the
disability
path began at six months of age. I contracted viral encephalitis and
after
a grand mal seizure, which sent me into a coma, the encephalitis
attacked
my central nervous system and caused nerve damage to various parts of
my
body. Most significantly affected was my ability to
breathe.
I was placed on a ventilator and later a tracheotomy was performed. I
required
multiple medical procedures even after I awoke from the coma. I was
totally
paralyzed and could not even handle my own secretions. This paralysis
resolved
itself in the first few years but I did not breathe at all on my own
until
I was almost two years old. At this time the medical community
and
the insurance companies believed only medical professionals could
perform
the care that I needed. However, after three years in a pediatric
intensive
care unit and my parents' active participation in my day to day
routine,
it became clear that I needed to come home. But the government
was
not so easily convinced. Rules and regulations prohibited my
family
from safely taking me home. The government had to create a new standard
so I could come home. The home and community-based waiver program,
often
called the Katie Beckett Waiver program was the new standard. It
allowed
kids who were forced to be institutionalized or hospitalized, many on
assistive
technology, to be treated at home by keeping them eligible for Medicaid
by waiving the income deemed to them by their parents, since that
income
could not or would not cover the cost of their care at home and would
be
waived if they remained in an institutional setting. This new program
helped
over a half a million people with disabilities, especially kids to live
in their homes and communities.
Julie Beckett (Mom), Maureen Mitchell and Katie
I started my advocacy career at age ten. It was not my choice but rather a path chosen for me. It was not until I was twelve or thirteen that I realized the important work I was able to do because I was who I was and how much this work helped other kids. I realized that this was something I was born to do so I was willing to take on the extra attention given to me by other students and teachers when I returned home even if it was embarrassing at times. Being singled out even for doing something so rewarding is uncomfortable and can create tension with other students. It made it difficult sometimes to fit in and just be normal.
My
first
job was at a music store at the mall. I felt like I had a
"normal"
job where the subject of my disability would only come up on occasion.
As a matter of fact I was offered the job because I would bug them
about
when new releases were supposed to be out and fill the manager in on
new
information about music performers. It was a great job with a good
discount
on CD's and other musical related materials. I could have stopped my
advocating
because of the added responsibility of a job but I did not.
Advocacy
is in my blood and in my soul. I care too much about the people I help
to push them aside. For me it's not about the attention I've gotten
over
the years, it's about the kids and families I have helped by being a
role
model of sorts. They see me succeed and that helps them want to
do
the same.
I
wanted
a job helping people even though the music store was great. I had been
volunteering at the YWCA in the second hand shop that supports the only
homeless shelter for woman and children in Eastern Iowa. I
learned
many things about the challenges these young children and their
families
face. I wanted to make their lives better. I applied for a receptionist
job at the YWCA. The job title receptionist does not begin to
cover
what the job entailed. I was a first responder to our sexual
assault
and domestic violence victims. I helped get them in touch with our
counselors.
I assisted in the neutral exchange program, which allows divorced and
separated
couples to drop-off their children with a third party. I also
helped
with the supervised visitation program, which allows parents who have
abused
their partner to visit their children in a neutral site under the
watchful
eye of an abuse counselor. I am now the assistant to the supervisor for
this program having graduated from the receptionist desk.
KASA
While
this job is very rewarding, what I find is my most rewarding work is a
program started by Family Voices, who speak on behalf of children with
special health care needs. This organization with 40,000 members was
founded
by my mother Julie Beckett, Polly Arango and Josie Woll. The
program
I am referring to is KASA- Kids As Self-Advocates. KASA teaches
kids
with disabilities how to be an active participant in their health
care.
It helps them to talk to their doctors, nurses, therapists, home health
care providers, teachers and their parents about how they feel about
their
disability. Kids need to teach these adults that as kids they can have
input into decision-making about their lives. Expressing what they need
to be independent. A young person's idea of what they can do is often
far
different from these well-meaning people. For instance, while I
still
require the ventilator at night few people can tell I need it.
But
the "trach" is a dead give away that I have some very special
needs.
Most people accept me for who I am but some treat me cautiously,
believing
I cannot or should not do everything. I have to teach people
everyday
as do so many of my KASA friends. We want to live a normal life
but
normal to us has a few different meanings. ---pictured---Katie
celebrates her birthday with Family Voices in Washington DC
KASA
helps kids through our website at www.FVKASA.org.
We provide articles on how to talk to parents and other professionals
about
health care decision-making. For example, sample questions are provided
and listening tips to help assure the messages they are receiving are
clear.
We have developed information on how to create a contract with your
doctor
before a hospitalization or medical procedures is done which allows a
patient's
input on decisions made. We also teach kids how to file their own
complaints.
The site has a list of disability-related organizations which kids can contact about specific issues. The seven, youth board members who run KASA also present to parent groups, medical professionals and organizations who serve people with disabilities on the advantages of using KASA services for themselves and their constituents. KASA is 400 members strong and has recently received a grant from the United States Diana Princess of Wales Memorial Fund. We will be using this grant to reach out to more and more young people with disabilities.
I am proud of the work I have done with KASA, but I am even prouder of the fact that I graduated from Mount Mercy College in Cedar Rapids this last spring with a Bachelors Degree in English and a Creative Writing minor. I am currently enrolled in the Paralegal/ Legal Assistants program at our local community college. Whatever and wherever my career takes me I know that I will always be an advocate for people with disabilities. You can count on that. I would like to thank Nancy DiVenere and all the families at Parent to Parent of Vermont for their dedication to children with special health care needs. And thanks for asking me to write this little update of my life. ©